Monday, Monday

Just a warning that this is a really wordy post but scroll to the bottom of the post to find out how to win a $100 Visa gift card!

Hello dolls!  Hope you all had a wonderful weekend!  I was missing from blogland + twitter as I was in Mexico all last week!  Weather was crappy at first but cleared up beautifully for the wedding we shot.  We had a wonderful time with the bride and groom and their families.  I adore destination weddings as you get to really know your clients and they truly become friends.

On a bad note, I came home to discover that someone had stolen a large sum of cash from our hotel room (that I had in my wallet in my purse).  I know, I know, I should have had it in the safe and I have always used the safe when we travel but for some reason I left my purse out thinking it would be okay.  NOPE!  I checked my cash the day before we left and everything was in tact and then I didn’t notice anything until I got home because the travel day was so busy and I still had money in my wallet.  Meaning, the thief had gotten to me the night before we left and then left just enough for me to think that I still had money in my wallet but when I finally got home and dug through my purse, I discovered just how much was missing.  It had to have been someone on staff because my room was very far away and upstairs in the middle of a huge building so it had to have been someone with access to our room via key.  I’m so disappointed by the whole thing but I’ve learned my lesson not to leave anything out.  Don’t trust anyone when you travel!

Anyway, I have a ton of things that I’ve been wanting to write posts about but just haven’t so decided to compile them into this post…

I’ve had a bad case of people stealing from me lately, mainly picture stealing.  Lots of pictures being stolen from my blog and the person not giving credit for it and implying like they took it.  I had to shut down my facebook as I discovered someone on facebook stealing my pictures and posting it on their own facebook.  I know taking my facebook down won’t help much but it’s one less way for people to steal my pictures.  I already had someone steal my header, I really don’t need people stealing my pictures and content too.  I’m keeping up our style.ish fan page as I’ve heard from clients and potential clients that they really like to keep up with us through facebook.  I just won’t be using my personal page anymore.  I wasn’t a big fan of facebook anyway I’m much more active on twitter so feel free to follow me on twitter if you want to know what I’m up to!  Also, I get a lot of followers but I don’t know who is actually a reader or who’s PR, etc… if you want me to follow you, just send me an @styleish, I always love to interact with my readers, I just don’t know who you all are!

Another thing, I also don’t like people taking pictures from my blog to promote their business.  After I posted about my eyelash extensions a few blog posts from other eyelash extension businesses have popped up using my picture (MY FACE!) talking about eyelash extensions.  They gave me credit but I’m just not comfortable with them using my picture as it’s not fair for them to use it for their business when I did not use their services.  I’ve contacted them to tell them to take down my picture.  If you come across one of these, please let me know.  In my opinion it is never okay to use someone else’s picture, especially without their permission to promote your business.  It’s one thing if you sent me a dress and I’m wearing it in my lookbook but if I had nothing to do with your business, do not use my picture to promote it.

I want to be clear that I’m fine with anyone wanting to use my pictures for your blog or tumblr or similar stuff (but to promote your business is another thing).  Really, I’m flattered when people want to repost my pictures and I really do appreciate the readers who have used them and credit me and/or email me to let me know that they’ve used the pictures.  I don’t ask for much, just a simple email to let me know where my pictures are being used.  Even if you don’t email me, a simple I am Style-ish credit with the link back here is all I want.

In general I’m getting super super tired of all the picture stealing.  I know that it’s something that I can stop by just not blogging anymore but it’s unfair for me to make that decision when all I ask is that people give me credit or ask me for permission when using my pictures.  You will notice coming up that I am going to start using a copyright tag.  It is my best way to stop this blatant picture stealing.

Sorry for the downer post.  Lookbooks to come the rest of the week!

And just a note to my husband, throughout everything that we’ve been through lately, the terrible traveling adventures, my work trips, my everyday drama, thank you for being there and supporting me, thank you for taking care of me, keeping the house clean, making me coffee every morning and making me laugh every single day of my life.  I love you, I love you, I love you.
These pictures were shot by a client of ours (Hi Nancy!) during her senior portrait session.  She turned our cameras onto us!  It was such a fun session capturing her for her last year of high school and love that she got a mini photo lesson from us!  She did a great job capturing J and I how we really are.  Always laughing.  🙂

Finally, I’ve got a fun giveaway for you!  Click on over to my reviews blog to read my review on Ritz Crackerfuls!  And make sure to leave a comment for a chance to win a $100 Visa gift card!

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  • Pauline
    July 12, 2010 at 12:19 pm

    Oh Tiffany that is terrible what happened to you on your travels, awful! I'm like you always too trusting of people that stuff like that won't happen. Love the pictures of you and your husband, it's so nice to see two people so in love!

  • Taylor
    July 12, 2010 at 1:41 pm

    Oh Sweetie! I am sooo sorry, but don't let it get you down!!! Jealousy and imitation are the finest forms of flattery! I know it is terrible and no fun when people steal your stuff…but they are obviously not nearly as talented as you!!!! Keep up the amazing work! And these last few shots of you and your man are PERFECT!!!! so adorable!

  • Couture and Crayons
    July 12, 2010 at 2:26 pm

    Sorry that happened to you in Mexico. We'll all learn from that. And boo to the picture stealers. On a higher not, you and hubby are so adorable. I am envious that you have such an artistic man in your life, note only that but a man that buys you Loubies!!

    Janice (Couture and Crayons)

  • Jacqueline
    July 12, 2010 at 3:33 pm

    Hi Tiff!!! I was so happy to see a new post from you this morning on my reader, what a great way to start off my Monday! =)

    Sorry to hear about your money being stolen in Mexico, how horrible! Hope it didn't ruin your trip! I look forward to a week of lookbooks from you!

  • Hanako66
    July 12, 2010 at 3:34 pm

    Oh Tiff, I'm so sorry about all of that stuff. :/

    So glad to see you two still smiling!! xo

  • Melissa
    July 12, 2010 at 3:40 pm

    Lots of hugs to you Tiffany! So sorry about what happened in Mexico and with people stealing your photos. On the upside, if you weren't such a great photographer, people wouldn't want to steal your stuff, so in a weird, twisted, totally wrong way, it's a compliment.

  • Andee Layne
    July 12, 2010 at 4:05 pm

    sorry to hear about all the stuff going on! have to appreciate our hubbys! Sounds like you have a great one! xo

  • BuduarKamizu
    July 12, 2010 at 4:16 pm

    the great outfit

  • Ivi_Mo
    July 12, 2010 at 4:22 pm

    Hi Tiffany! I know this is more work for you, but why don't you just add a watermark to your photos? That way, it will be near impossible for someone to steal the photos because it'll be difficult to get rid of something added to the picture.

  • Cindi
    July 12, 2010 at 4:30 pm

    I'm sorry to hear that people have been stealing your pictures, Tiffany. After talking to some photographers in finding one for our wedding, I realize how much work you guys put into each one you post. The internet, unfortunately, has made it easier for people to take these "properties" from people. Your hubby sounds so sweet and you guys are so cute. It's great to have to rock by us during these times huh?

  • Anita
    July 12, 2010 at 4:33 pm

    Nooooooooooooooo say it ain't so. I've been following your blog about 4-5 months ago. I absolutely love your blog and I like your sense of style. I wish you wouldn't end it just because of these jerks but I understand*sigh*.

    I hope I win the gift card I will spend it in your honor!

  • Joce
    July 12, 2010 at 4:53 pm

    Hi Tiffany,

    I hate picture stealers too. Have you thought about registering your blog with My Free Copyright ( I use the service for my own food blog and it gives me peace of mind that I have proof to show those stealers and can enforce the law if I wanted to. 😉

  • tiffany2stylish
    July 12, 2010 at 5:23 pm

    Thanks everyone for all your support!

    Pauline – I know, I trust everyone and I figured we were at a 5 star resort and that it was safe but I was proven wrong. 🙁

    Taylor – that's a good way to look at it 🙂 I'm not feeling too bad about it, more annoyed than anything. LOL.

    Janice – haha, thanks and yes my man is too good to me.

    Jacqueline – hi!! I missed your comments!

    Hanako – thanks girl!

    Melissa – weird and twisted indeed! haha

    Andee Layne – I am so thankful that my husband is so supportive of everything lifewise, workwise, blogwise. He's amazing!

  • tiffany2stylish
    July 12, 2010 at 5:27 pm

    Ivi_Mo – Thanks for the suggestion! I will be adding a small tag on all my pictures from now on.

    Cindi – thanks for mentioning that. It definitely is more than just taking my camera and clicking the button but the picture stealers don't think about that.

    Anita – thanks for your support! No worries, I won't be shutting down anytime soon. I'll just be posting less (and smaller) pictures.

    Joce – I didn't know about that! Thanks so much, will register now!

  • Katie
    July 12, 2010 at 6:38 pm

    Oh no, I'm so sorry about your money (and the picture stealing)! It just makes it so hard to trust people, doesn't it? Glad you have your husband to make you smile… and make you coffee 🙂

  • Nina (Femme Rationale)
    July 12, 2010 at 9:58 pm

    OMG, that's terrible – the money stealing and the photo stealing. how did you find out about your stolen photos? i just learned about this site: i haven't tried it yet but seems interesting…and maybe promising.

  • Chloe
    July 12, 2010 at 11:52 pm

    Ugh, what a bummer- for both the missing money and the stolen images. I mean…as a professional headless Ebay model, I feel your pain.

    (People are jerks)

    I'll never forget how upset my picture was one day when she discovered a pet store had used an image of one of her dogs in its ads in a magazine- without contacting her. Not a peep from the company, nada, nothing. Some people just don't think before they yank something, others…well, using your pics for their facebook profiles? Ugh. So creepy!

    Hang in there, girl. Darling pics of you and your husband!

  • WendyB
    July 13, 2010 at 12:23 am

    Hon, I have people stealing pictures from my blog to promote their crap rip-offs of my jewelry. It never ends. Sigh.

  • Chic Therapy
    July 13, 2010 at 12:29 am

    awwwwwww!sorry bout the stealing incidence

  • tiffany2stylish
    July 13, 2010 at 12:33 am

    katie – haha, the coffee part is very important, I don't even know how to use the coffee machine!

    Nina – I only find out through friends and readers who stumble upon them and occasionally I'll be blog surfing and see them myself. Thanks for sharing that site, I may try it out!

    Chloe – agreed. people are jerks. that's unbelievable about the pet store. seriously? What the hell.

    WendyB – ugh. that sucks.

  • Chic 'n Cheap Living
    July 13, 2010 at 2:52 am

    Ugh that sucks about your wallet and those crazy picture stealers but what a sweet ode to J!

    I'm starting to watermark some pictures too (more because I don't want people to pass off my images of my stuff and pass it off as theirs!

  • alixrose
    July 13, 2010 at 4:56 am

    Doll sorry I havent been around much, with a new job its been hard keeping up with the blog and commenting. I am so sorry what happened in both cases. Glad to see you and the hubby all smiles at the end of this post. So lucky to have someone so supportive in your life.

  • gleenn
    July 13, 2010 at 5:19 am

    how sweets. it's good to see real smiles, real laughs. 🙂

  • DiamondsandTulle
    July 13, 2010 at 5:27 am

    Oh Tiffany – sorry to hear about the thieves – money and phot wise. That just really sucks! And I don't twitter so I do love seeing posts via FB in case I miss some on my blog reading. I think copyrights for your pics are probably very necessary – especially since your photos are such hugh quality! The pics of you and your hubs are super sweet and glad you have such a strong supporter!

    Vivian @

  • DaynaC
    July 13, 2010 at 5:32 am

    you and your husband are so cute! don't let all this stuff get you down, it will all work out. 🙂

  • Iva
    July 16, 2010 at 1:57 pm

    ugh so sorry for the no fun stuff!!! you two are too cute though!!! LOVE IT!!! 🙂 glad you are dealing with is so well though!!!

  • emilypanda
    July 16, 2010 at 6:13 pm

    I'm sorry those things are bumming you out. I hope the rest of your week has gotten better.

  • Fatty
    July 19, 2010 at 12:15 am

    That just sucks. No other way to say it. But just know your faithful readers feel your pain and support you! Hang in there!

  • Nancy
    October 19, 2010 at 9:53 am

    Ahh! I remember taking these pictures this time last year! Oh you guys were awesome 🙂 I'll be sure to call you up in ten years for my…wedding pictures!

  • Glocal Girl
    December 2, 2010 at 8:04 am

    Despite the terrible travel incident it's refreshing to see that you know what's truly important… love love love 🙂

    You and your hubby are adorable.

    Love from a Cali girl living in Holland,